10 ways to kick-start your love life

Watch a film…

... not necessarily of the risqué variety. ‘A good way to get used to talking to each other about sex and what does and doesn't turn you on is to explore a wide range of DVDs together. View romantic dramas and thrillers - most have some sexual content and some of it you will find arousing. Open up and tell your partner about what turned you on, and get him to do the same. Out of ten or 12 films, you're bound to find a few that you both find erotic,' says Jean.